I'm 32 and a mother to a 4 year old boy. My husband is 29. We've been married 6 years, and now looking back I can honestly say I was never in love with him. I have love for him, but not the way a wife should a husband. We have nothing in common, he expects me to be something I'm not. He does not respect that I am mother first and always will be. My career is also very important to me. I believe its an important lesson I can give my child to respect a woman that is intelligent, and a good role model.I have a very demanding career as a trauma nurse. I have long hard days, and at times need to share and seek comfort in my spouse. That NEVER happens. I feel cheated, and alone. In short, I'm not in love with him, and I shouldn't have to compromise me for him. I've lost my sense of self-worth, and I want it back.Theres more to this story, but space limits. No communication, nothing in common, and I've sacrificed me for him for the 10 years in total weve been together. Thoughts?
2006-10-09
07:21:23
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ladeecapulet
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Marriage & Divorce