i have been married for 4 years, we have sex proberly once every 1 or 2 months. I cant bring myself to have sex. Im a loving and cuddley person, my husband, doesnt cuddle, hold hands and has only kissed me properly on our wedding day, he hates kissing. I thought i would be ok with this, but im struggling. even when im upset or crying he just walks away he cant handle effection. So after time ive stopped having sex with him, he might aswell leave me 10 pounds on the side of the table thats what it feels. Im getting more angery everyday about it, i cant bring myself to show any effection towards him now. i feel like ive been married 60 years. its scaring me as i dont want us to split, but everytime he has a drink he brings up not having sex and i know what he was like before i married him bla bla bla. his parents have had 8 kids and they dont show him any attention so im blaming them what do you think i should do..... Ive really gone off sex....
2006-10-09
20:55:45
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Marriage & Divorce