My husband had total control of the household at the age of 12 because his father was a womaniser. When he was 22 he came to UK from Turkey and met me. I was 33 divorced with 2 kids. He told me he was 27. We had a daughter, now 16. My sons didn't get on with him and left home very young. I resented him for my boys leaving. Last year I discovered he was cheating, but he said him leaving would have nothing to do with other woman. She was an error of judgement. We needed time apart to re-start our relationship which had been bad. He also said I had baggage, that he needed freedom. He now lives on his own, but comes to the house every weekend, takes me out, treats me good, took me on holiday, makes plans for our future. But, I don't see my kids and our daughter wants him out. She says I shouldn't forgive him, or trust him. He says he hopes our separation is temporary, he just wants to get his head straight.He treats me as if we are dating. His mother says keep quiet.
2006-10-08
21:58:54
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