My ex of 3 years dumped me 3 months ago. We had several issues, but one major one was my jealousy/controlling behavour. Now, I know all of the reasons this isn't good and so on and tried to change at the time, but it was deeply engrained. It is NOT who I want to be.
Is it worth working on this NOW when I am single and convince my ex it is better? She doesnt believe people can change. I think I can and know that I put her on too much of a pedestal and didnt take care of myself enough first.
Has anyone gotten over bad jealousy? and how would you convince an ex you have changed? She is very adamant about our break-up so if nothing else, I will have to be better for the next person, but we both (ex and I) still love one another
2006-10-08
21:44:29
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