My husband was emotionally cold to me & had been for about 4 or 5 yrs of our 15 years tog, & so one day he was allowing our son to disrespect me & I left. He had gotten to where he didn't respect or really even "want" me anymore.
I finally took what self respect I had & walked out. He wants to come back to where I am (several hundred mi away now) but he wants to BLAME me (so bad!) for leaving. I have told him & told him that it is HIM that left (emotionally) years ago...told him that he could've kept me if he had wanted...(I really tried to help him "see" that our relationship was going south for a lonngggg time & he would even get nasty with me to get me to quit talking about things..grrrr. Pent up feelings get so old, esp when it feels like you're the only one that cares about a relationship!)
Anyway, now he calls & acts like nothing's wrong (of course!) & wants to move back in. I really want my family back together, but I don't know exactly what to do w/this character!
2006-10-07
17:30:56
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John V
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Marriage & Divorce