Yes, I'm a faker. When I have sex, I've found it's easier and 'nicer' to fake than tell the guy 'it's not going to happen'. I thoroughly enjoy sex, but I've never been able to orgasm with a guy. This worked out fine in my early 20's since I changed partners every 3 months or so and I could always polish myself off. Now I've hit a snag since I'm with a guy I truly like and would like to actually have an orgasm with him. The problem is that I've faked with him, so how do I teach him to please me when he thinks he's been pleasing me all along? One of the things he likes about sex with me is that 'I come when he's in me'. Well....that's not true. And if I start teaching him (saying move here, slow down, no not there, ow!, etc) he's going to pick up that things have changed. Am I doomed to come clean about this? Any other fakers out there who can help me out?
2006-10-03
05:10:03
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Brianna
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