I have mostly female friends because I have been helping foster kids & battered woman all my adult life. Every woman I meet knows this and yet go ballistic because of my close relationships with all my long time contacts! Why bother with me at all if they can't trust? I know what I want !
2006-10-03 05:10:40 · 20 answers · asked by Davey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's only normal...the thought of you being too close to another woman freaks her out...believe me, I am always jelous of female friends ( I think every girl is ), but it's not you she doesn't trust, it's probably your friend...yeah it may sound weird but it's true. What if your friend starts flirting with you? That is who we don't trust. Just think how would you feel if your woman had lots of close guy friends, I bet you would also get at least a bit jealous.
2006-10-03 05:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by allie_p15 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have the need of being close with so many women? Why do you have mostly female friends, I mean dont you have buds to play football together, go out and drink, go fishing, etc?
I dont know about you, but at the time of my life when i had much more males than females friends that was cause I was single and always flirting and looking for something to come up.
2006-10-03 05:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Graça 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels insecure. I mean how would you feel if she had a bunch of male friends/buddies that hanged out with all the time. I understand how you and she feels. You should maybe take her along for a ride or too and show her she has nothing to worry about. Unless she really does have a reason. Another thing is someone could have cheated in one of her previous relationships. Good Luck!
2006-10-03 05:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by VMG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't make her feel secure enough, if not, you wouldn't be going through this. And then you have to put yourself in her shoes, would you like it if all she had were guy friends? Really close guy friends that she has known forever, that she goes to have dinner and drinks with? Sometimes you have to look at whatever it is that you are doing with your female friends, that ticks her off. Then see how'd you feel if that was her with her guy friend.
2006-10-03 05:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about your particular situation, but in my personal experience, there's no such thing as heterosexual friends of the opposite sex. There's always something more going on. The guys who I thought were my "friends" would eventually reveal their ulterior motives. So, I am generally suspiscious of any guy who claims to have female "friends". I'm not saying there aren't exceptions, and you might very well be one. But you are probably in the minority then. Please don't blame your dates for being cautious.
2006-10-03 05:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the relationship that you have with these women. She may feel like you are more concerned about them than about her.
Maybe you just need to find someone that can be close to your female friends as well.
2006-10-03 05:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a confident woman she won't care/ but there is a line between being friends and taking it the next level/ she may see that coming/ because no offense but some men are a little stupid in that dept.-just be careful/ and be certain you maintain friendships (not friends w/ benefits)
2006-10-03 05:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 10:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are insecure.
I have close male friends, and not gonna stop the fiendships cuz a bf is jealous.
2006-10-03 05:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you haven't told her how you feel, she may be harboring ideas that you feel more close to these women than you do to her. Be CLEAR and sweet to her about your true feelings and it will allay fears that you find these women more interesting, beautiful, or desirable than you find her.
2006-10-03 05:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by cudancegirl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋