I had been cheated on/abused in two previous relationships years before I met my husband, and now after two years of dating, and even after getting married, I feel very insecure, jealous and untrusting. He's done nothing wrong, and I know it's my own insecurity causing arguments, possibly ruining our marriage. It's really getting to him - and me! I have also cheated on the one I loved and know the "signs" and the heartache, and want to prevent it so badly, I'm just making things up in my head to make my "detective work"- ie checking his call list, looking at receipts, and emails- justified. I need to stop this!!! But how?
2006-09-28
19:04:33
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mrschrisbennett
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Marriage & Divorce