2006-09-28 19:05:35 · 13 answers · asked by riya k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its easy for people on here to judge you and say grow up but untill you have walked a day in someone else's shoes then you have no right to judge someone cause everyone on here arent angels, Just follow your heart and if you have children just make sure you always put them first, It seems now a days most people cant divorce because of financial situations, I know how you feel i have been there. good luck
2006-09-28 20:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the only thing you should do out of respect for both of your spouses is to divorce before moving on with each other. If you can't seperate you shouldn't even be thinking about this guy. What kind of life will you have.....or your spouses...or your kids..if you have any. if your sneaking around with each other like a bunch of teenagers....grow up and start acting like mature and responsible adults....I don't mean to be harsh but If you are married and you can't divorce you need to make the best of it. I know it hurts when the man you love isn't your husband, but you have to find a way to make it work!!!!Good Luck!!
2006-09-28 19:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer: QUIT SEEING EACH OTHER. The reality of it is that if you are both so "in love" with each other; why are you STILL married to your spouses? Crap or get off the pot. Affairs NEVER work out. You can't have a relationship on the side of your marriage. You either give 100% to your marriage or divorce and give 100% to your significant other and hope that HE doesn't cheat on YOU. This is no way to live. Besides, why be unfair to your husband AND yourself. This is a childish game that NO ONE wins. Good luck.
2006-09-28 19:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by SoCalGal75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tisk Tisk...if you love your husband you wouldn't be desiring someone else. If you two want to be together give your spouses the common courtesy they deserve and let them know that you don't want to be with them so they can possibly go out and find someone (possibly eachother) that will love and respect them enough to be faithful.
Only cowards would keep hurting their families over and over again to satisfy lust, I'm assuming that's all that your relationship can possibly have going for since you are spending the rest of your time trying to convince yourselves and your spouses that you love them.
Grow up and set your spouse free...he deserves better.
2006-09-28 19:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you desire to be together then it's only fair that you both get a divorce to make that possible. You disrespect each other and your spouses by not fixing the situation. Down the road it can get much nastier if your found out.
2006-09-28 19:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant you two live together?if your love is pure and strong then both of you could get divorced.then you two can start a new life. if children are involved then it wouldbe tough .it will take a lot of understanding and patience.but if neither of you are strong or brave enough to face the world and take your relasionship to the next level then you should just forget it.it takes a lot of love,courage ,dedication and patience to get what you want out of love.
2006-09-28 19:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but yet you stood up in front of god and gave vow's guess you were thinking of someone else then too huh . oooohhhh but now i want a diffrent piece of meat that i really love . grow up
2006-09-28 19:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be sarcastic,
but is their a way to separate conjoint twin than their must be a way to separate you two
you two are adults you need to make up your minds
2006-09-28 19:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to make an unhappy situation even more stressful and unhappy. Hope you don't have kids.
2006-09-28 19:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jen B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats called having an affair.
2006-09-28 20:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by katie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋