i have it all with my boyfriend. he is everything any girl could ask for; he is sweet, treats me with respect, leaves me my space when i need it, and is entirely devoted to me.
my problem: i do not share the same strong emotions for him that he does for me. i love him, but i love him as a friend. he is not the kind of guy i am attracted to romantically.
we have dated twice (during highschool) prior to our current relationship. each time, i ended it.no matter how close we are and have been as friends, i see him as just that: a very good friend. it has now been four years since our first time dating, and each time we broke up, he asked me out again about a year later.
now we have been dating for about a year
i am afraid to lose a boyfriend who is so loving and accepting.
i am afraid to hurt him.
i am afraid that i am not being fair to stay in the relationship, when i feel more like it is an obligation than something that brings me happiness.
any thoughts?
2006-09-28
11:19:55
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bdazz
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