I have been with my partner for 4 years & 1 month ago he told me he wanted some space, so I moved out for a few weeks. We still saw each other every day because we work together but we just wasn't living together. Last weekend he told me he met someone else recently & he has had sex with him a few times. He said he is sorry, but he doesn't know what he wants. He says we was "split up" at the time, but i just thought we had moved out. I want to be with him because despite what he has done I love him, but obviosuly I am finding what he has done hard to cope with, & I dont know how to forgive him. I dont know whether it will get easier as time goes on but at the minute I am very upset at what he has done to me. I am jealous as well because he wanted to do it with the other lad, & we have not been having sex a lot. I want to forgive him but I dont know whether I can, also I dont know whether he wants to be with me or not. He says he loves me & I believe him. Will it get easier with time?
2006-09-26
02:20:53
·
19 answers
·
asked by
d_b330
1
in
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender