My teenager runs to dad about mom, so he will get his way. I feel I'm my teenagers sibling and he's telling on me to dad. He's doesn't do this when dad is gone but as soon as dad shows up he just wants to sit on the couch and not participate in the household duties. Then I get angry after 3 or 4 times asking him (nicely)to help then we get in a big arguement then he runs to dad and then I get in an arguement with dad. It works out pretty good for my kid cause usually he gets out of work. I find it difficult to be around him whenever his father is home, I almost want to avoid him completely, but I don't see as only MY responsibliy for the house. I know I could avoid all arguements if i just done everything myself and let my kid do whatever he wants all day.(that's dads remedy)but I need to teach him responsibilties, and his father is only teaching him to run over women. but i'm not allowing it,I feel if my husband is out of the picture things would be easier, but thats not an opTION
2006-09-24
03:19:22
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CRAFTYLADY
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