I used to love looking at porn, but when my husband went to Iraq I discovered some disturbing things on his computer. I found out he was paying for porn and looking at it while i was asleep. I also found out that he had "forgotton to remove himself from several online dating sites even though we were together for two years. When i realized he had saved pictures in his folder of nude women but none of me i was crushed. He says he doesn't chat or look at webcams but I cant seem to trust that when i have found webcam files on his computer. This drives me insane when i have alone time and cant resist checking his computer. He gets insanely mad when i do and has password protected it. How do I make him understand that I know when he lies to me and I wonder sometimes to what extent? The thing is, I used to share my porn with him, we have made videos but he never watches them or looks at my "sexy" pics, how can i not be hurt? What can i do online without crossing the line to make him feel me?
2006-09-23
05:21:07
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wise red pheonix
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Marriage & Divorce