My girlfriend of 1 and half years recently broke up with me (six month ago) because she slept with her male friend, behind my back they organized a holiday to South Africa and they left me. When I meet her she have 9 month old baby, we start to rising the baby together, we both a full time adult student, I applied a nursery for the baby biased my University in order to help droping and pick her up in the evening after I finish class which I did it for more than one year, her mother spend her time after study, she going to a different kind of sport and yoga, me after I come bake form University I clan, I cook and wish the baby and put her in bed. The baby she become vary close to me I am vary much attached to her and she start to calling me daddy. I start to committed financially by working part time and student lone, I open a saving account to the baby, I never felt I was not biological dad, until she side to me, you can not see the baby and I do not want to see you as Weil, I rely love so much my baby and my girlfriend and I stile do love her, I spoke to her and I side it might be a mistake chatting me but lets leve what ever happen behind as lets move on if we have problem lets sorted out. She side to me the problem is you so I do not want to see you; you are not going to see the baby. Still I am crying I lost the baby I lost her as well. I do know her reason what makes her to decided to stop me seen her and the baby? Even what ever I saved for her I just want to give her but I scared she might thing in a different way. I dream about the little girl every day and night. HOW do I get over the resentment of her leaving me?
anyone that could give advice on how to get past this hump in my life, please msg me, your advice is appreciated.
2006-09-14
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