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When you think about what family values meant to you when you were growing up. Do you think they still apply today or have they changed?

2006-09-14 13:02:12 · 15 answers · asked by jue 3 in Family & Relationships Family

15 answers

you need to ask?
most of societies problems stem from the lack of family values.
there are too many uneducated children having children.

2006-09-14 13:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think some people who have a need to hate and judge want to create an artificial definition of family values and impose them.

Real family values are pretty much timeless: care and concern for those closest to us, whether by birth, adoption or committed relationship. Support for those we love, even when they disappoint us, forgiveness, healing and honesty are the real family values.

When I was growing up family values remvolved around caring, having ethics and believing in justice. Those don't really change.

What I do see is people who have an idea of what they think a family should be whp translate it into being what a family must be, no matter who this hurts, be it a single parent family, a childless couple, a same-sex headed family. Hate is not and has never been a valid family value and some who bandy that term around do so largely to justify their own biases and even outright bigotry.

Love, respect, honesty, and justice will always apply, and this means in our families of birth, our families of choice and society as a whole.

2006-09-14 13:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Well, I'm a teen-not an adult, but I know a lot of parents nowadays don't care about their kids. I've got friends who tell me about their parents and their parents don't seem to give a care about them. Then I find out about my friends getting into some problems with kids and teachers and they tell me how stressed they are.

If a homelife is a life filled with stress and stuff, then I think times have changed. I think families need to care more about their kids and actually be a parent. It's sad how some people don't wanna raise their kids and their kids grow up commiting crimes, breaking the law or having some other hard lives.

2006-09-14 13:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0 0

I think the family I am raising is more geared towards the traditional style of values. Me and my husband are still married and both have a big part of raising our kids. For me growing up, my mother was married 3 times, my brother has a different dad and in the end my great grandma ended up raising us because our mum didn't want us.

2006-09-14 13:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0 0

There are no more family values today if there were the crime rate would be down. Kids today don't have any manners nor do they have respect. Today the kids walk around with this hugh chip on their shoulders and they expect the whole world owes them something. They are more spoiled today because parents don't say no. Parents just don't care in today's world.

2006-09-14 13:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by asia s 2 · 0 0

yes family values have changed

2006-09-14 13:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it gets worse every generation... so much more progresses and is accepted .. society goes with it and and is more accepting of divorce , single parents, and the married parents seem to busy trying to make it in the world that the real values of family fly out the window

2006-09-14 13:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by caligrl 5 · 0 0

relations Values do not substitute, this is the capacity by employing which they are finished that do. and easily, in case you'll provide up for a minute, it really is in part the fault of the church's insistence upon preserving the sacrament of marriage holy unto itself (fairly than unto the participation (or not) of the human beings in touch) that further about the whole inflow of divorces. those who were compelled to stay in a wedding ceremony that under no circumstances might want to were, and who unexpectedly had a fashion out, took it, which disrupted and dispirited the idea interior succeeding generations, who grew up in households arc welded at the same time lower than that burden. In different words, the reason divorce is so wide-spread now might want to be because the rules of the church. As such, even as the church reached a disaster element the position it would want to not overlook about what develop into occurring, it tailored as develop into mandatory, and prefer a flood of investors unexpectedly promoting off their inventory, a panic ensued. as a results of personal again-lash of those who grew up in dysfunctional households as a results of 'sanctity' of marriage, what easily do you anticipate their emotions, attitudes, and movements in the direction of marriage are going to be? preserving a ceremony (or theory) sacred above the truthfully human beings upon whom it relies upon is a receipe for catastrophe. preserving the idea of 'relations values' sacred over the certain persons upon whom that theory applies (even if or not they characterize a 'sturdy' relations or not) sows the very seeds of disillusionment and disunion that you so intently and selectively see. the dominion of god isn't presided over by employing bishops or clergymen, or those who position their skill in such. it really is discovered even as one individual (believer or not) places theory into action. you spot an 'enemy', and salary warfare. Who sees an possibility, and brings healing?

2016-11-26 23:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by josepa 4 · 0 0

family values often change with times. this is called social change.it is an interesting topic in sociology.

2006-09-14 13:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0 0

yep they have changed but u would expect them to change - thats life.
when i was young (here we go....) we used to watch tarzan on a saturday afternoon eating curry in our flat. ahhhhhh those days.
then later on in life..... we used to watch a black and white film on a sunday with tea and crumpets with my mum and dad. those days are gone now but we didnt realise how things would change with our own kids ie computers and all that stuff.
all the above doesnt sound a lot but we had fun and we spoke to eachother - i loved those days.

2006-09-18 08:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by shariwharton 4 · 0 0

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