ok so the guy who likes me basically stalks me, he like follows me and stares at me, when he notices me looking at him he waves, and also he stands near my locker with his friends, just watching me not talking to me. and he has talked to me before, but nothing really important. but his friends have told me that he likes me, a lot. but i dont like him, i like a different guy. and i really think that guy might want to ask me out, or he might like me. but today my friends were bored so we starting playing truth or dare, so my friends dared me to wave back to my stalker so i did. now the stalker is telling all his friends that i like him, so i am sure the guy that i actually like will hear about it and than not want to ask me out anymore. what do i do?!?!?
2006-09-14 13:03:27 · 9 answers · asked by =]] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go and ask the guy out that you like ,and then have him go after stalker.
2006-09-14 13:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the mind games. This guy has feelings, too, and you shouldn't play with them. If he's a weirdo, it might set him off. Be kind and polite, nothing else. I can't believe you did the truth or dare thing, and I don't even know you! You are taking some dangerous chances. If you'll just leave him alone and not encourage him, your plight will be much easier. Now for the guy you really like. Don't overtly let him know. Be coy. As I just told another in a similar situation, one wants most what one thinks might be unattainable. Make yourself attractive (which I'm sure you already are) and keep your distance. Make eye contact when possible, smile, then look away. He'll get the message. Don't come on to him; guys like to think it was their idea. Good luck!
2006-09-14 20:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your 'stalker' really likes you. If youre afriad that the guy you like will be turned off by the stalkers guys actions then is he worth it? Or if youre worried that your crush will be mis-lead then just try avoiding your stalker. Another option is to talk to the stalker. Ask him whats up with his stalking. Maby hes a nice guy!
2006-09-14 20:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Dex's Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say tell the guy that stalks you that you only waved at him because it was a dare and tell him that you don't like him tell him you like somebody else and ask him if he wants to be your friend and tell the guy you like that you like him and then see what he says and i don't know what else to tell you don't say it in a mean way to heart you stalker just say it in a nice talk to him by your self not in front of nobody then tell your friends later
2006-09-14 20:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a hard sisutation for you! What i would that you might not want to do at first but might be the best thing to do is tell the boy you like that you like him! Or have one of your frineds so do it...di it before the rumor about you liking the other kid gets to him..if you think he was going to ask you out then telling him should be a good idea.
2006-09-14 20:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Abercrombie Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the other guy. Do not settle your heart is to important. Life is to short. You can get this other guy you seem like you are smart and confident. So go for it sister. What do you have to lose?
2006-09-14 20:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by princess crackles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should ask the guy you like out before he doesn't ask you out and before he hears about it. Since you think he likes you and he might ask you out, there's nothing totally wrong, so ask him A.S.A.P! That's what I would do...(:
2006-09-14 20:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh-oh... not good to play with someone like that... giving him the wrong signals.
2006-09-14 20:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by A K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then choose already and go on with that person.
2006-09-14 20:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋