Okay, I've been on birth control for almost a year, and recently I've really been thinking about having a baby. I spoke with my husband and he really doesn't like the idea, and I really, really take what he says in all seriousness, but it still just seems like the perfect time.
Sometimes I think he wants things to be 'perfect' first, which nothing is ever perfect. Anyhow, today he agrees that I can stop taking birth control, and I'm ecstatic. But he's not so happy, and that bothers me. More than anything, he's worrying.
Would it be best just to put off pregnancy until he's ready or should we go ahead and start trying. A part of me is thinking I should put off what I want until our whole 'family' is ready. But that kind of kills a part of me inside.
Thoughts, suggestions, ideas?
2006-09-11
01:44:56
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Tea_Girl
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Marriage & Divorce