After a short-period of normal sex life, my husband began telling me (for months/years!) he was "dead down there" from the medication he was taking. Then I discovered that he had simply removed me from the porn equation (I had previously enjoyed it with him from time to time), and was choosing to have sex with himself (and these porno women) instead of with me.
He & his therapist try to assure me "it's not me" and that he has no anxiety or pressure from these cyber-sluts, but I am not sure I buy it. I think they both could be using his anxiety and depression as excuses for true addiction, potentially because they just haven't considered it.
How would we know?
And WHY does lack of interest in your wife occur with these men, really? Because "real" women with "real" bodies and boobs and preferences bear no similarity to these cyber-sluts, and so the man no longer can be attracted to his wife?
Trying to understand and soothe my ego. Don't want to hate my husband.
2006-09-10
00:50:28
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