Does anyone know any good gay public toilets around the london area? Should I discuss my feelings with my wife?
2006-09-10 00:49:38 · 26 answers · asked by Long John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are in a relationship. Gay / straight / bi or asexual, you do not cheat. That would be the wrong choice.
Try experimenting with your partner, there are plenty of toys out there to stimulate most of your desires.
Speak to your doctor to arrange some counselling, to explore your feelings.
If after the above, you still want to pursue an alternative relationship / orientation, then finish the relationship you are in first. Putting your inability to sort yourself out, via 'telling all' or having relations outside of your current partnership, onto your partner is unfair.
2006-09-10 01:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Alzebub 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All these people are wrong....no one can understand your desires, I have the same ones...my wife doesn't know and will not find out....watch the public toilets, too dangerous....find you a guy and hook up and make it a routine thing that she doesn't need to know about.....I meet with my boyfriend every month and have been for the past 2 years....she doesn't know and it makes our sex together much better.............if you never play with another man, you will always regret it....
2006-09-11 03:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by bimale694u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should tell your wife and talk about it and if this is what you want and makes you happy then do it because you can not live your life a lie yes it will hurt the kids and the people you love but you can not do this to your self either i wish you luck and just be safe if you do this there is a lot to look at like aids and you need to look at all this before you do it
2006-09-10 01:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by carolea_lamblin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wanting to experiment doesn't give you the go ahead to cheat. How about a little respect for your children, and your wife's HEALTH?
2006-09-10 01:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm you need a therapist, either that or seriously you need to think about talking to your wife and letting her down gently before you go shaking your stick around - think about the kids as well
2006-09-10 00:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by lizarddd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should discuss things with your wife first. How would you feel if you found out that she was screwing other people behind your back? Not very happy I would imagine.
2006-09-10 00:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wot u sayin? You think your gay now?
Stay with your wife and look after your kids.
Stop being silly.
2006-09-10 04:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by LMC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i tell you what better to tell the wife and risk the battering...who knows she may even understand women can be amazingy sympathetic you know...than to go trawling around public toilets and get arrested...are you nuts???!!! tell the wife and go to sex counselling to help you decide your preferences and how you want to live your life but be safe and go about it properly or youll risk losing everyones respect including your own...good luck
2006-09-10 01:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should tell your wife and think what this would do to your children, it is really sick go and get some help
2006-09-10 00:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes talk to yur wife, its only fair she be the first to know and then make up her mind what she wants to do with the whole thing you owe it to your beatiful kids too!
2006-09-10 00:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by malaika 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋