I'm falling head over heels for a guy right now, and I'm freaking myself out!!!
I guess maybe I'm the classic jaded dater--I have had big losses in the past, in fact the father of my son passed away after five years of being together....That was five years ago now.
I have dated a few people, and the relationships have been less than perfect. I've been hurt.
Ok-- the point of my question is to get ideas on how to slow down my feelings..... or if it's even possible!!?
This guy is amazing, seems to be really interesed in me, and very accepting.
Things seem to be moving at a healthy pace--- except in my mind!!!
I feel like it might be innaproriate for me to be feeling sooo strongly so soon. (the relationship is only a month old, but we have such a natural connection, it seems longer..)
I feel like a schoolgirl, and wonder if anyone has felt this way so quickly, and how it turned out.
Maybe I am just putting up walls because I'm afraid of loss?
Not sure.....Input appreciated
2006-09-09
05:31:34
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