So me and my college boyfriend (we have been dating three weeks. He is the nicest guy i have ever dated. Farthest things from a asshole and basically a saint. He is adoreable but he hasn't yet realized how cute he is and has never really dated.
So at this party this girl who is he friends with went up to him (she was a drunken mess) and gave his neck to long kisses. I was drunk and flipped out. (All my old boyfriends have cheated on me so i am insecure) i wouldn't talk to him or let him touch me while like 8 people including himself and the girl were like there is ntohing between us.
I got mad and walked (all alone) a long walk by myself to a dorm on the top of a hill in the cold. this was a dumb dangerious idea.
Anywayz i know nothing happened between him and this girl i he hasn't talk to me or called me to make sure i got back alright. I still want him in my life.
Do I apoligie for my behavior
or should i be mad he didn't walk me back. I could have been hurt/raped
2006-09-09 05:31:18 · 4 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend accuily got raped her first night here when she was alone. i just can;t believe he let me walk off by myself
he didn't even check on me.
2006-09-09 05:31:55 · update #1
Sh ewas drunk and so were you. So that probably means, with the help of teh alcohol, you over reacted, and you should make the first move in the apology. Maybe he should have walked you back, but you shouldnt have walked out in the first place, sry to say. he was probably to mad/hurt that you didnt trust him, especially seeing as you said yourself he hasnt dated much. Go talk to him, apologize, and explain how you're a little hurt that he never checked on you(about the rape thing), but don't try and hold that over his head, because, once more sry to say, you have no right to, and it may either break him, or he may just leave. Best of Luck.
2006-09-09 05:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by theonewhoguides 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably thinks that your a drama queen now, but even still he probably should have called to make sure that you made home alright. And a gentleman would have walked you home even if you were being difficult. Unless you were being completely unapproachable. Consider all the factors that led up to your reaction. Maybe you were seeing the BIG RED FLAG go up when the girl kissed him, ask yourself this, what was it about that situation that made you so upset, was it her!! or was it him and the way he handled it? OR did you jump the gun, and make it more than it was? Be honest with yourself. Don't make excuses for him just cause you think he could be so great for you. Cause maybe that was a sign that he's not the one. If he doesn't call you very soon here, then girlie, take it for what it is, He's not the man you need in your life, you can do better than that.... Good luck, don't be a sucker even if you might have over reacted.
2006-09-09 05:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by you_wahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should apoligie and u should b mad cuz he should have walk u home. U should just call him and resolve this problem.
2006-09-09 05:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I were him I would tell you to go pound sand up your azz. If you want him back you need to get a super sized tube of chap stick and start kiss his azz. btw a deep head job might work also
2006-09-09 05:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by chicken_plucker69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋