We have been engaged for 1 year and still no date. We just bought a house together, so thats the focus now. Obviously, I would like to set a date and he just wont. His reasons are the YARD on the new house, him finishing the CPA exam, and money. We were thinking about next Sept, but he says he's not sure about whehter he will be done with everything by then. I am super hurt by this. I understand he needs to pass the CPA exam, but I also think that if he wants to marry me that should be more important. Plus, its not like we're planning on having a crazy wedding, we're just going to go to Mexico. We're talking about 1 week. I was dumb enough to sign up for The Knot and stuff so I'm constantly sent emails for planning that just depress me. Not to mention the fact that everyone always asks when and why.... And yes, he knows I want to set a date, he says he wants to too but has other stuff to deal with first. Its making us fight, and I think i'm starting to resent him because of it.
2006-09-09
10:01:37
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