Yesterday, he threw it in my face that he wanted to marry someone who was financially independent and I should have been up-front with him. You see, he answered an ad I had placed to meet someone nice for casual dates. He responded and one of the things he mentioned was that he wanted someone who was financially independent. I was divorced and living on my own and it is true I only had about $50 thousand. to my name whereas he owned a house, car, boat, many investments. Within a few months, we went on a trip to Mexico together and I paid for half of all expenses. We moved in together and have since married. My ex was paying me some money but did not really have much so my husband said it was ok if I did not accept any more money from him so I agreed. Now my ex is fighting serious cancer and still scrimping by, so I would not ask him to resume paying me.
My husband is retired and does not want me to get a job as it would tie us down. He also resents my health problems. Answer?
2006-09-07
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