what should i do?
2006-09-07 01:42:51 · 11 answers · asked by cheer4ever 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
tell him straight up.sure heel cry but at least he knows you didn't lie to him.
2006-09-07 01:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Alana. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing like that is ever easy to someone that young, but your going to have to tell him (sooner than later is better in this case), but how to actually tell him and have him understand is going to be the hard part. I was lucky as a child growing up on a farm, because I had pets and that, so I understood about death. If you belong to a church or something, have the minister help you explain it to him, if not, there should be a support group or something in your area that may be able to help you, if not that, if you know a good neighbor who you trust and respect, ask them for help in explaining it to your brother. Good luck in what ever you do ... and sorry about your loss
2006-09-07 08:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by Zenas Walter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit your brother down and just be honest with him. Tell him that your mom will never really be gone, as long as you keep her love in your heart. Always be open and honest about death, that is something all of us go thro. and be there for your brother, with lots of love and answer any questions he has, to the best of your ability(don't lie, if you don't know tell him that).
2006-09-07 08:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by luv2wubsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just asked anoter question a little buit ago about the number for Pi and you were in 7th grade.... now your mom is dead and you haven't told your brother??? You need some help with more than math homework kid....
2006-09-07 08:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by nikonjedi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are a Christian, tell him God needed a special angel to watch over the little baby angels in heaven, and while his mother would have liked to stay and be with him, and you, she was too ill to stay with you any longer, but he will see her one day again, and she will always be watching over him.
2006-09-07 08:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that her spirit is there. Watching over him. Checking in on him. This is a comfort the child needs. And who knows?? She probably is.
2006-09-07 08:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are very religius you should tell him that your mom has gone to heaven and that she will always be watching out for him. If your not tell him a story about death and reberth.
2006-09-07 08:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by sweetfire21_28 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get an adult to take over the situation, they can tell him better than you can. good luck honey.
2006-09-07 08:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell him that mom has gone to the other country for 5 years or six years. by that time he will grow up that much, he can understand the truth.
2006-09-07 08:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Amod M 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
in a few years just tell him she's still sleeping. did your parents get a divorce before or after she died in the other room?
2006-09-07 08:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by notyours 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋