My husband is in a position of authority at his work and is friendly and good looking. He works with cute girls, lots of friends and employees. He comes home tipsy about 3-4 nights out of the week, sometimes only two, but never less than one.
Everyone there drinks together and he gets his social life through his work. I wonder sometimes if he isn't having TOO much fun, if he has a crush at work, who exactly he's hanging out with, etc.
I feel very left out and excluded and I'm wondering how I should feel about this. I don't have much of a social life anymore. While he has friends and fun and flirtation all around him.
I also think he might be doing drugs at work. I have voiced my feelings about it but he feels justified, that he "put's in his time with me" enough, but it's not true. We never do anything just the two of us, because of my schedule and the fact that we have children. He says we can't do anything together because it' a money issue and a time factor.
2006-08-27
01:43:22
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