I expect I'll get a couple smart *** responses to this question, but I'd genuinely like to know what most people think regarding this particular thing.
It should be noted that I like sex. (Who doesn't?) Well, my boyfriend doesn't, that's who.
Let me re-phrase that. Alarm bells went off when we first were dating (we have now been together a little over a year) when he told me sex was over-rated. !!!!????
Over the course of our relationship, I have found sexual intimacy to be a problem - it is something I am missing with him.
When we do have sex, which is about once a week, it is usually just for his benefit and he very rarely tries to do anything for me.
I certainly have never encountered this with anyone before, so have nothing with which to compare it. I have had other long term relationships though, where this has never happened and I am a VERY sexual person. I have pointed it out to him numerous times and it gets better for a while, but it only lasts a few days, if that.
2006-08-05
21:02:49
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