i cant stop thinking about this girl...?

Question

does that mean i love her? everyday i think about her, about her smile, her laugh, her eyes and just the way she is, but does that mean i love her or its just an attraction to my eyes?

Answer 1

Nothing more than infatuation at this stage. But love grows out of infatuation when it happens. Not all infatuation grows into love, but almost all love starts from the same place.

Answer 2

Its called 'limerance'. It'll fade after some time and you'll begin thinking clearly again. If you have any of these feelings, then its just a crush (but that's how most realtionships begin anyway):

1.intrusive thinking about the limerent object
2.acute longing for reciprocation
3.some fleeting and transient relief from unrequited limerence through vivid imagining of action by the limerent object that means reciprocation
4.fear of rejection and unsettling shyness in the limerent object's presence
5.intensification through adversity
6.acute sensitivity to any act, thought, or condition that can be interpreted favorably, and an extraordinary ability to devise or invent "reasonable" explanations for why neutral actions are a sign of hidden passion in the limerent object
7.an aching in the chest when uncertainty is strong
buoyancy (a feeling of walking on air) when reciprocation seems evident
8.a general intensity of feeling that leaves other concerns in the background
9.a remarkable ability to emphasize what is truly admirable in the limerent object and to avoid dwelling on the negative or render it into another positive attribute.

Hope that helps man. Have you even spoken to her yet?

Answer 3

I know what you're going through... it's very likely just infatuation. Haha doesn't it seem like she makes your day better just by existing? Well, I think you should try to ask her out and build a relationship with her, but until you know her innermost self and think about her beautiful soul as much as her beautiful face, it cannot be called love. Take advantage of what you feel now and initiate the relationship! Best wishes.

Answer 4

u can never fall in love till u now the person
and this is just an infatualtion
andi no u must be enjoying it
but it all changes when u get in a relationship lol
just kiddin
tell her how u feel just dont tell her u love her ok
abhi

Answer 5

I think that if you are questioning it in the first place that you don't truly love her at this point. I think it is possible for you to love her without question down the road, but you need to get to know her better and spend more time with her to get to that point. You definitely like her but if you actually love her, I don't think you would be asking this question. :-)

Answer 6

Yep, you like her. You dont love her, you just like her. I know what you mean, I have had that feeling before...for a guy of course. You just cant stop thinking about that person, I mean theyre in your thoughts like all the time. And even when you say to yourself, "Get out, get out, get out" , they just dont. :) Listen, well now you know you like her, so whats the next step, does she like you back? What's the deal? Good luck, hope everything turns out the way you want it to.

Answer 7

If you would do anything in the world for her and try to spend all or lots of your time with her there is a good chance it is more then a form of lust.

Answer 8

It's probably just infatuation. But! don't worry about what to call it and just enjoy the feeling.

Answer 9

if everyday even when u re with ur girl friend ,maybe u love her.

Answer 10

if this feeling is new to you it probably is love you should tell her how you feel i kept that inside one time and i ruined alot of things after that , anyway tell her! NO ONE CAN TELL YOU YOUR IN LOVE !