I was in a serious relationship for 9 yrs with a man that I loved and believed was my soul mate. It was a mutual decison to go our separate ways 5 yrs ago. We did not want the same things from life at the time.
I have had several satisfying relationships over the years and am dating someone now.
Recently my ex's brother died suddenly. I sent a sympathy card. He called. We played telephone tag, then finally spoke for quite a while. He is living with someone. I told him that I was happy he found someone special. He replied that he broke his shoulder and she was very helpful to him since he could not get around, etc. He added that he still didn't know what he wanted .
Before we hung up, he asked me if I'd like to do lunch sometime. Thinking it was just a fiip comment that we business people often make, I said, "Sure, call me."
Two days later he left a message. I haven't returned his call.
I'm conflicted because although I got past this man, I never got over him.
Any advice?
2006-08-01
02:08:25
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Angela
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