My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 or 4 weeks. The problem is that he doesn't want to get a job. He says his drum practice is more important to him right now. In every other respect, he's a perfect gentleman-he opens doors for me, pulls out my chair, ect-and treats me well. I want him to get a job, but I don't know how to get him to. I've already tried telling him that it's a job or me and that didn't seem to phase him. How can I make him see that him getting a job and paying for a our dates is the same as me looking nice for him? It's not like I want to go some place expensive-I'm asking dinner and a movie once a week-usually 45 tops, usually less than that, though. What can I do to make him get a job and make him see that its him or me. He keeps telling me that no one will hire until August.That's not far off, but he also keeps saying that he's going to be "busy with school", so I don't know if he'll actually get one then or not. What should I do-dump him or hold out?
2006-07-30
14:38:32
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