Briefly, I started seeing this woman a little over a year ago. We called things off a few months ago, but then we've continued recently as if still together. We argue almost every time we are together. We don't mean to, we talk about it, we try not to, but we do. We are, from my point of view, clearly not meant to be together. But I really care about her and she's leaving soon. I probably won't ever see her again... she lives in another country.
I don't know how not to argue with her... she seems to always be testing me, then challenging my answers, or becoming offended by them. Also she is openly affectionate and I am not. And I inevitably get frustrated and raise my voice... it goes downhill from there. I just want to get along with her while she's still here, which is only going to be a few weeks... less if she leaves early, as she is thinking of doing.
Any thoughts on the best way to handle things?
2006-07-19
17:35:42
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JStrat
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Singles & Dating