Your relationship had no communication or intimacy and when it does have communication, it isn't in reference to the relationship but more worldy conversation. When arguements happened they are bad. I mean bad. Throwing things, breakdowns, leaving someone stranded, etc.
You tried to escape but since the other person has nothing, they are dependent on you (totally.) You have no money to afford a babysitter since this person is watching your children during the day while you work,( they work too).
Everytime a small fight occurs you end up in a breakdown. Your soul is exhausted and no one will listen or be there for you, you are afraid of talking to this person b/c you are afraid of how emotionally uncontrollable you become, you don't recognize yourself anymore.
Everytime you express how something affects you in the relationship, the other person tells you how you treat them, as if they only see how they are being affected.
Therapy not working.
2006-07-15
11:39:43
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fiestygirl
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Marriage & Divorce