I have a b/f of 11 years, we have a 8 year old and I love him very much but the last few years we have been so distant from each other.I dont want to be vague with my Q but they dont give you alot of charachters to write with. He wanted more sex from me, but I wanted more mental stimulation from him to give him the sex, I was miserable in the relationship and moved out in march and we both were hurting. We were suppose to start dating to bring back the spark but we got a bit distant. He claims that he wants to make it work and that he wants his family back but when we sit and talk he continues to get texts on his cell phone from other girls and I believe I have lost him. I got us a counselor and we are starting to go but could use some additional info from all of you out there. He says that this is my fault because I left, but he mentally left us while I was still living with him also. We say that we love each other but we are so distant.
2006-07-12
08:41:22
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luvsyoualot
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Marriage & Divorce