When I have sex with my boyfriend sometimes he acts like it is the greatest thing in the world; others he acts like he could take it or leave it. What could I do to make him love it every time?
2006-07-12 08:42:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant Sweetheart.. After 45 years of marrage I can tell you it dont work...I am a man and love sex (WITH MY WIFE ONLY) on this site figured I better put that in there.. Well there has been times that I've made love to my wife just because she wanted it, me, wake me at 9..Theres times she dont really please me or me her, but thats life...Just Love him and trust in the fact that if hes having sex with you, your the one he wants to be with...Dont spoil a good thing by trying to hard, may turn him off... Last: TRY ASKING HIM..HE CANT BE MAD IF YOU LOVE HIM ENOUGH TO ,, ALWAYS BE WONDERFULL FOR HIM... LOL been trying for 45 years and aint figured it out yet.. ROB
2006-07-12 08:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what you are telling me is that everytime you have sex, you act like it was the greatest thing in the world. I find that hard to believe. He is being real with you. Would you rather have him lie to you and say it is great everytime. Sometimes it feels amazing, and sometimes we just need to get one out. Depends on the mood, the kind of day we had, and a bunch of other factors. I sure it is the same for you.
2006-07-12 08:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my personal opinon and expirence with sex. and im a guy sex is always good. Sometime not great. but better than nothing. Here are some thing u can try to excite your time in the bedroom. 1. leave the bedroom-sometimes in can be very exciting if you have sex in somewhat of a more public place ;). 2. MOVE AROUND. maybe not fake an orgasm (i hate when girls do that) but at least make it seem like your enjoying it. 3. Spontanious that explains itself. 4 role playing it might be weird but boy can it spice up the bedroom. 5 Ask if there is anything he wants to try. be adventerous. but keep it safe :p
2006-07-12 08:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by hotgoatlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't have to be off the chain every time, sometimes it's just a quicky...it all depends on how your day was if you are tiered or not if you are stressed....men as well as women are not always in the mood for great sex. Juust enjoy it for what it ids & make the best out if it & don't take it personal long as yawl love eachother its all good! you can alway try to spice it up, get yourself some lingerray & wear it when he gets home from work...buy some porn anmything talk to him abnout what he likes and how he likes it & ket him know what you like or don't like as well!
2006-07-12 08:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monday - Cheerleader Outfit
Tuesday - French Maid Outfit
Wednesday Morning - Thong and High heels
Wednesday Night - Indian Princess Outfit
Thursday - Have your best friend over to join the fun
Friday - New York City for the weekend
Saturday - Do it in Central Park
Sunday - Mile High Club (on the airplane, on the way home)
2006-07-12 08:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have it 3 times a week do it 2 times or 1 and give him oral, that will make him want sex and appericate it
2006-07-12 08:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ry M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly for me just show up. I find that after 2 or 3 orgasms, sometimes even after one the women gets tired and sleeps. I try to be more lame but you poor girls cant handle good lovemaking.
2006-07-12 08:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Brad I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had that problem before...but maybe try cutting back a little. Don't have sex everyday or each time you see each other. Build some sexual tension up,when you finally have sex do your best moves.
2006-07-12 08:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves it every time, he is just like you, sometimes hes tired, some times hes stressed. We all have other things on our minds from time to time.
2006-07-12 08:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tease him a little when he acts like he really doesn't want it get him in the mood rub on him and little and just tease the mess out of him
2006-07-12 08:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by Earl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋