I'm afraid that I may have to run screaming from my boyfriend of almost 4 years. Im almost 30, he's almost 40.
He used to seem perfect & still has a lot of surface charm to those who only know him superficially ( handsome, mensa iq, witty and has a fascinating job)
He used to seem deep & caring to me, but I'm afraid he has darkness in him. 1.- I'm 5'5 125 lbs and he's says he'd like me better and be more interested in marrying me if I weighed 110-115. Strike 1
2.- He constantly lusts after girls on TV and in Movies & on the street who appear to be only 16-18. He has even said how hot he finds his friends daughters who are just turning 18 (he thought they were hot at 15) Strike 2
3.- Lastly & most disturbing he has gotten physical shoving me or throwing things at me when I stand up for myself. I broke up after he did that, he hasnt done that in 2 years.
But yesterday he told me that most of the times women who are hit DESERVE it. He then added that I deserved it in the past.
2006-07-08
21:17:56
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