My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years...I won't let him do drugs, I ration his cigarettes, and I don't let him hang out with unfavorable people. These harsh rules are a result of some trust issues where he was lying to me about drug use. I won't let him go out with his friends that I don't know, especially the guy who provided him the drugs. I also have access to his financial information so I can help him budget. His friends hate me and have convinced him that I am way too controlling. I'd like to change if I am. In my defense, I have also taken care of his every need, I helped him get his own place, I helped him get his vehicle, and his job, so he can be self sufficient. I've bought him groceries to completely fill his place, and almost all the furniture in his apartment has come from me. We've been together forever, we plan to marry , despite our faults (we've gone the bumpy road, but are mending) and I want to know if I'm being to harsh before I ruin the relationship.
2006-06-25
18:36:47
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