My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years and he is still very insecure and childish about it. I have never gave him any reason to be insecure, I am always telling him and showing him that I love him, but that doesn't work. I never go out with friends or even just to the mall. The only thing I actually do alone is go to the grocery store and to and from work. I am not saying that I have to go out every weekend, but some "me" time is very much needed. I can't be myself in fear that he will get mad. And if I am 5 minutes late from work he thinks I am with some one else. He is always using the phrases: "You want to be with someone else","go find someone else","you're acting funny", and many more. I am really going crazy! I walk on egg shells everyday and one of the reasons I don't go out is I know if I mention it it will just lead to a big fight and then going out would not even be worth it. I always am encourageing him to go out with some buddies. PLEASE HELP!
2006-06-07
04:43:37
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Luis
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Marriage & Divorce