Though i'm not ready to get married, my bf is pushing for it, and the issue of weddings has been a hot topic among my family lately. My mom is a Christian, attends church regularly, etc. And when I brought up the issue of how, in the future, i'd probably rather avoid all the expense and drama of a wedding, and get married at the Court House, she said that was wrong, and that if you are going to be married, and believe in God, you should be married by a Minister. While I am by no means perfect...and my relationship with God is not where it should be, I still believe in God, and would like to do things the right way. Is my mother right, in that I should be married by a minister instead of at the Court House by a JOP, or is she simply wanting what many mothers want, in seeing their daughters come down the aisle in the white dress? I'm the only girl, and I don't want to disappoint her. I also want my marriage to have the right foundation, in the Lord. Is she correct?
2006-10-23
08:35:17
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