I'm a woman 22 years old who likes a man 36 years old. But he seems not knowing my feelings. I've tried all ways to show that I care about him very much, yet still no respons at all. But I also confuse, if we together, how about our different n religion, I'm Christian and he' a Moslem. I know it's better I forget him know before it's too late, but my heart seems hard to do it, cause I really ... really love him. Please give me an answer, what should I do ?
2006-10-23 08:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by arn 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If you are a sincere Christian you need to know that the bible says not to be unequaly yoked with an unbeliever. This means that you are going in two different directions. You are setting yourself up for an unhappy future. Ask the Lord to send you a Godly man who will also treat you right and honor you, and love you in the same way Christ loves the church.
God bless.
2006-10-23 09:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by handsomeworshipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what country he is from or where you live now. Remember in many Muslim county's they still have arranged marriages and in much of their society, men should not talk to women in a flirtatious manner. As far as the difference in religion that should not matter because Muslim men are allowed to marry Christian women. I was a Christian before my conversion and my husband is Muslim. AL Hamdilillah. ( means Thank God)
Have you tried asking him a question about his religion? I don't mean that you will convert but that you show an interest in something that is important to him may get his attention.
Invite him for a cup of coffee and tell him you want to talk, ask about religion, his job, his country etc. Let him know that you are interested in his opinions but don't be really flirty. Ask him what his ideas are on mixed marriages, between different cultures, religions and races, See what he says. Good Luck, Inshallah this will help.
2006-10-24 07:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by brendagho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. It's as simple (and as hard) as that. Even if he rejects you at first, he may turn around. If he doesn't, then you've lost nothing. It will hurt for a while if he shoots you down, but aren't you already in agony with your own feelings?
On a side note, you shouldn't believe you love him until you get closer to him, I mean like after you kiss. It's simple infatuation until you have your first real fight.
2006-10-23 08:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by Rabid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one- in a perfect world love is blind- however in the real world it depends on how important religion is to you both and how both families will feel about it. Tell him how you feel and see what happens
2006-10-23 08:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by roydono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really, really love him, he already knows and doesn't reciprocate. I suggest you give up and look elsewhere, He is only going to marry a born muslim woman, if he isn't already married, which I suspect he is.
2006-10-23 08:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** religion. Religion tells you bunch of stuff. What you should listen to is your heart. if you think it's right, then do it.
2006-10-23 08:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by fikir lehulum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well according to your religion arent you supposed to marry inside your religion? doesnt the bible say do not marry non-believer?
2006-10-23 08:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should posted it in the singles and dating section. if you wanted unbiased answer.
2006-10-23 08:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kalooka 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a Christian
the bible tells us not to do this.
email me if you want scripture
God bless you!
2006-10-23 08:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋