2006-10-23 08:41:29 · 30 answers · asked by iwbbwym 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Talk to him and try to get him to see what's wrong with his actions. If he doesn't listen, pray for him and leave it in God's hands. God can point out things in a way that we can't.
2006-10-23 08:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Thats an easy one. I would tell the person he planned to marry. What sense does it make to let people get married under false pretenses and it will eventually either tear that person up inside with guilt, or destroy their marriage eventually anyway. Either way it will not work. Its better to let the other person know and save on emotions, finances and maybe children's futures later.
Believe me, i've been through divorce and it isn't fun for anyone.
2006-10-23 08:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by Gods little Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind my own business. Not only will they want to kill the message but also the messenger. It's a lose/lose situation. The truth will come out some day and maybe when it does it won't have any value to either person. (after a divorce for an example).
The offender will do other bad actions to their mate because of the constant deception, it is not for you to plant the negative seed.
2006-10-23 08:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Manamo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get PROOF of the affair, and tell the bride-to-be before she gets married.
Or let her get married. At least she can sue him for a divorce and get some money out of it later.
I would tell her secretly, and let her decide what she wants to do.
2006-10-23 08:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a tragic tale. the line to happiness is specifically circumstances rocky. perhaps she married this different guy via fact she felt rejected with the help of you. in case your mom and father did no longer like her...and you desperate to reject her...What else ought to she do? this would not propose that she had stopped loving you. perhaps you need to fulfill her in a public place for you the two to chat and to make certain in case you nevertheless have the comparable emotions for her. If she has married the incorrect man or woman and you nevertheless decide for her...no count what your mom and father say...decide for it.
2016-10-02 21:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by lavinia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
id confront this friend and ask them to end it and tell them what the concequences would be, if that doesnt work then im sory i know its harsh id make them tell or id tell them its awful to find out everyone knew before you and even your friends didnt tell you trust me this is from experience, if they truely love each other theyll make it to the alter. honesty is the best policy in the long run even though it might not seem that way.
i hope i helped and apologise if i didnt.
2006-10-23 08:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by AMI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk him out of getting married. He's obviously not ready to settle down and it's not fair for him to ruin three people's lives.
2006-10-23 08:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by beattyb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep my mouth shut, but not go to the wedding. By attending, you're providing "witness" and support to a commitment that you know is a lie. If people press you for why you won't be there, just say "for personal" reasons refer them to the groom.
2006-10-23 08:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all "boyfriend/girlfriend" thingy is NOT allowed in Islam.. so most prolly i wont be his friend (cuz i don t approve this stuff)...
n if i had a friend like that . then i wud first tell him that this is wrong.. n if he doesnt listen .. then i'll tell both the girls cuz that wud be a good thing for the future for all three of them... it mite hurt for the time being.. but its gonna be the best for all the three!!!
2006-10-23 08:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him, what the hell he's doing now ?! Ask him is it true that he's been cheating and the reason why he cheat ? If the addmitted it, then you've should tell his fiance, cause she deseve to know the truth even its hurt. It is better to know it now before it's too late.
2006-10-23 08:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by arn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋