A single guy that I know has a girl friend, they are both christian, and are committed to abstain fror sex untill they are married. They have had no form of sex, be it oral or penetration. I don't know about "petting" etc. but the bottom line is they have not had a sexual relationship. The guy said he has a desire to have sex and to find relief he resorts to private masturbation. He said that he believes that, as is indicated, to lust after a woman is to committ sin--- adultery. He said in an effort to combat this "lust" he fantasies about no particular person. He evidently does not think about his girl friend, any one he knows, or has ever seen. He wonders that since he fanttasies over a make beleive person, masturbates, and has a climax, is it still sinful or fornication? He isn't having sex with anyone or dreaming of anyone he knows but still dreams of sexual encounters to find sexual, emotional relief. I don't know what to tell him. What do you think? What should I tell him?
2006-09-26
16:26:23
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