I visited my fiancees church today mainly because he had been telling his staff about me. Initially, I felt like I was going to be on display, like everyone was going to be watching everything I said and did - and it happened! After church, the worship leader who is my fiancees best man, asked me if "they had made me mad" and commented that I even appeared to be angry in service because I didnt sing or wave my hands when everyone else did. I come from the Black Gospel experience so for one, the music at that church didn't move me AT ALL! Not ALL Black Gospel music moves me. I asked "T" the worship leader why he was so worried about how or what I was doing in service when he should have been focused on leading worship rather than what I was doing. I left the church feeling like I never wanted to visit that church again since it was obvious I had been talked about as well as the way I do or do not worhip. Comments on what I should do next? I do have a church that I am very active in.
2006-08-27
09:11:20
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