The company i work for is having a "presentation"...it's a boring, nothing to do with me, social event, and i don't want to go. When they asked me if i would i said no, when asked why i jokingly said that my boyfriend doesn't let me. Then my boss asked me to make room for it in my agenda, and to tell my boyfriend it's a work thing, that it's not that "i have to" but he made it seem as if i had no choice. I said i would see what i can do...but i don't want to go, i have my reasons... and on my free time i like to do my own things. How can i explain this without seeming rude, or lying ? (cause they'll know i'm lying anyway, i always get out of doing anything "extra work" with them), and i feel pressure to go to all the social things they do. Is there any way to make them understand i don't like to do that kind of stuff, and that i won't do it! without them hating me or firing me?
2006-08-20
18:28:00
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jade
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