i'm married for three years now and a live a way from home and away from my friend i have few friends online but the are not like my friend i have ny husband he is so understandind but i still feel like i miss my friends i'm a weak person or not independant
2006-08-20 23:11:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
What are your interests? Join a few clubs in your new community that interest you.
Some ideas: Be in play, join a chorus, take up karate, join a hiking club, join a sewing circle, help a charity (a soup kitchen or food bank, cancer, red cross, the rotary club), join a gardening club, volunteer at the hospital, the police station or the library, join a language group.
Join a gym
Attend church. Help out once in a while.
Check out craigslist.org and pick your city. There is a section there for strictly platonic friends.
You have to make your own fun. You can do it.
2006-08-21 02:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be an idea to try and meet some new nuturing people that help you build your confidence in people and your surroundings.. Join a fitness group, small church or voluntary group, there are lots of people around that are in the same position as you, you may be able to help someone else, reward yourself once in a while especially your spirit... Also books of inspiration are awesome check out Joyce Meyer on TV enjoying everyday life.... Good luck girlie.. Maybe your husband can assist you with some salsa classes, or something together.
2006-08-20 23:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by BettyBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how far away you live. Obviously if you live in europe and they are in america then its different but if you live like a couple hours away then try and arrange a weekend trip or something with your friends where you drive to their house and sleep there for the night or vice versa. Also if you live to far away to do that then keep in contact with your friends through e-mail, phone, letters, however you can. One more thing, don't be afraid to get out there and meet some new friends.
2006-08-20 23:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by robby miszti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an understanding and good husband you should feel lucky. He is your best friend and you do not need many friends to be happy. If you are so needy of friends you should not have married and stick to your friends wherever they are. People get married because they need the companionship of a partner and because friends can't be there for them as much as a spouse. If your spouse can't fulfil you, you really should not have gotten married.
2006-08-21 19:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join an art class, or anything that interests you. You will make friends. To make friends, you must be friendly and approachable. Your husband would be much happier if you were happy. Right now, you can't be that much fun to be around. Think of your marriage, happiness is sometimes a state of mind, and you have cornered yourself to computer friends. They can't really ever get to know you.
2006-08-21 01:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by tobinmbsc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become strong and faithful of character. Above all, believe and have the maximum faith in God Almighty. Things will work out for your good, if you follow the steps above. All uncertainties, will fall apart.
2006-08-20 23:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz spent some time with ur husband n ur family regularly that may help u really need a break may be u r workin too hard n you are stressed out may be being with your family will help u.
2006-08-20 23:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to miss friends. Just get over it and find new ones. Go out and find them, not on the damn computer.
2006-08-20 23:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by ITS ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and find new friends. there must be someone where you live that fits you. i know what it's like to be away from home but you should at least try to accomodate.
2006-08-20 23:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by ilya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems since you have moved away u wouldnt be weak hun.
lol
2006-08-20 23:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by cowboysfan4lyfe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋