Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - August 2007

Look, guys - I've been on here for a month, now, and I'm sadly addicted, I love it here, and I love you guys and your answers.

This is part question, part plea - PLEASE, PLEASE do not feed the trolls anymore! It makes them worse (I know you've heard this before) - bet even more, I know of people that are reporting you for feeding them!! I don't want any of you people with open minds and kind words getting BANNED from here while the trolls get exactly what they want. I know I'm putting myself on a limb by doing this, but....

Also, please let me know any other ideas, besides ignoring, reporting and blocking that you veterans and smart people might have. Ciao! XOXO

2007-08-14 07:57:55 · 18 answers · asked by gochefs (Geo) 5

i mean, well like my 1st question "why r most emo boys homosexual?" a lot of the people's answers said that they find it totally hot...but..why? wouldn't it still be hot if an emo guy was kissing an emo girl?

2007-08-14 07:56:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

The Onion is awesome. Here's a recent spoof they did:

http://www.theonion.com/content/video/gays_too_precious_to_risk_in

2007-08-14 07:55:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-14 07:47:44 · 6 answers · asked by patagonia 1

2007-08-14 07:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just wan to know because as far as everyone has come their really shouldnt be any racism at all you know i mean its just so childish and un called for and so past 3 centuries ago.

2007-08-14 07:01:32 · 22 answers · asked by ~*[AnD]*~ 4 lyfe 2

like when i look up images of emo all i get is guys kissing guys...

2007-08-14 07:00:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a teenager and me and my friend kinda play with eachothers penis somtimes and we masturbate on eachother, but i like girls, and i ussaly have a girlfriend, and i have madeout with girls

2007-08-14 06:55:27 · 9 answers · asked by Ching A 1

2007-08-14 03:12:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our 'tickle trunk' is overflowing with wonderful items like catsuits, boots, hoods, gloves, restraints etc..
How about you?

2007-08-14 02:59:04 · 19 answers · asked by hotblack_b 5

It seems to me that just wishing or condeming them all away isn't going to work. They are a big part of this society and should be accepted and treated as any other couples- or single gay Americans.
What I cannot figure out is why it bothers so many people? I'm not gay and I couldn't care less if someone is or not. I have friends and some family members that are very dear to me and what kind of relationship they are in matters not about what kind of human beings they are.
Why does it bother so many people?

2007-08-14 02:41:01 · 10 answers · asked by Cindy P 4

There are certain topics on Y!A that become heated. It causes some members to wear down and eventually make mistakes. Trolls take advantage of this.

I am asking this question in several of the heated categories to gather suggestions from persons that see the problem.

2007-08-14 02:04:11 · 16 answers · asked by Teh Ebil Gey 3

If someone have being straight for 20 years can he suddenly become gay
for 20 years he fell in love with women had sex with women and really fell in love with women can he suddenly in 1 day become gay ?!

2007-08-14 00:01:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm bisexual and love Jesus am I going to go to hell because of this???

2007-08-13 22:57:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-13 22:15:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately my boss has been making remarks which seem more sexual in nature. The other time he remarked how he had not been getting sex from his wife since she got pregnant. He also joked about how I was trying to seduce the female colleagues / clients by bending over (I was arranging some items) and showing them my "tight ar*e" - his words. He also confided in me that he's so horny for sex he wouldn't mind having a fling regardless of that person's sex and do I know anyone up for that.

I'm confused ... our relationship has always been friendly ... but my boss can be a prat at times and I often engage in exchange of arguments / insults / sarcastic remarks (although purely on a joking level). Otherwise, we have an okay professional relationship.

Don't get me wrong ... my boss is quite handsome and desirable. I'd date him in a minute if I'd met him in other circumstances. I just worry that there might be repercussions in dating my boss (plus he is married).

2007-08-13 21:28:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

There seems to be an emerging cult of personality of our dearly departed Canadian "I've had a boyfriend for 20 years and now I'm married to him" friend, Da Ben Dan.

Who is the secretary of his fan club?

2007-08-13 19:52:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any signs to tell if someone is gay or not? I mean especially if someone is trying to "hide" it. I mean are there any kind of clues that are common. help!

2007-08-13 18:45:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and I live in different states - although we will be living together. The thing is - last night we were talking and she said to me that all the posters and pictures I've got on my walls are somewhat childish and when we're living together, I won't be able to have all the pictures. I've got about 175, and the majority of them I've had for years and they also hold meaning with me.

The thing is... I'm already 'sacrificing' a great deal for her. I'm moving to another state, leaving behind friends and family, I'm moving into a different workforce because it'll mean more money for us. I'm also allowing her ex-partner, who has mental issues, to remain living with us, be it in a granny flat out the back.

And I ask myself - am I being irrational, getting upset over not being allowed to have my pictures up, or am I sacrificing enough already and should I simply tell her that the pictures are staying? What do you all think?

2007-08-13 18:05:08 · 29 answers · asked by Zarathustra 4

You're gonna go to heII because of your sexual orientation??

2007-08-13 18:01:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not asking about girl on girl porn with two blond bombshell types that's meant for men. I'm talking about true lesbian porn meant for lesbians.

I'm not asking for and perverted reason or because I want to see it. I was just having a conversation with someone and the question came up. Neither of us could recall having heard of such a thing. Besides neither of us thought lesbians would be consumers of porn.

I'm not asking for any links or explicit details, I'm just curious about whether such a thing exists.

2007-08-13 17:34:18 · 13 answers · asked by Justin H 7

I try to call myself a Christain, however I am also bi and I wonder what to do here. The bible says to love your neighbor, however it also says that any act of homosexuality is a sin. So, technically, I was sinning when a boy from school asked me to dance and I accepted.

I rented the movie Saved and just got done watching it a few minutes ago. In the movie, the main character's boyfriend confesses his orientation to her. However, after finding gay porn under his bed, his parents send him off to a Christain rehab center for "de-gayification". I wonder if that would resemble my parents reaction. I haven't come out to them yet, however since they are both conservative christians i don't think I should at all.

Am I really a walking sin by being bi? I am told my many that "there is no such thing as a gay Christian", so who do I stick up my middle finger to: my pastor, or my boyfriend?

2007-08-13 14:42:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

The question of whether or not certain celebrities are gay or straight is often the subject of discussion and speculation in the media.

People just want to know what the sexual orientation is of their favourite celebrities living or dead.

In response to this unceasing curiosity people will often say things like "what does it matter? he is still a great actor either way" ... or "Who cares, she's a great singer no matter what her orientation is". Of course these are true statements. But isn't still okay to want to know these things? We get to know celebrities to some extent, or at least we feel that we know them. So isn't it natural to want to know about something so fundamental them? After all, you would never write a biography about a gay man and not discuss the fact that he was gay. To leave such a thing out would be to ignore a huge part of that individual.
What do you think? Is it okay to, with some limits, insist on knowing what a celebrities sexual orientation is?

2007-08-13 14:25:26 · 17 answers · asked by Zezo Zeze Zadfrack 1

i went looking 4 it and its him with shorter hair and his orientation in GAY what do i do???

2007-08-13 14:15:09 · 16 answers · asked by nicci 1

Don't get me wrong... I am a lesbian myself. But it seems like we are almost persecuted for being this way.
I say leave us alone and NO, we didnt choose this lifestyle.
I also hate that we get blamed for aids.... That is sooo wrong. I read that the government was trying to get rid of us. So they offered free vacines to homosexuals. A great percentage of these people later tested positive.
Who do we blame?
People who didn't even choose this lifestyle or people too ignorant to leave us alone?
Sorry, but I had to get this out.......

2007-08-13 13:48:44 · 18 answers · asked by Jules 2

Can someone explain to me why a gay person would have to "come out"? Wouldn't God have accepted it in Sodom and Gommorah? Wouldn't it be accepted now? Wouldn't it be fruitful? Please be as honest as you wish. I want your opinions.

2007-08-13 13:08:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Captain Gioto in San Diego is filing suit on behalf of his fellow firemen because their lesbian supervisor ordered them to march in the Gay Parade. They got subjected to statements like, "Show me your hose"... and worse. CNN News and others are trying to portray him as an overly sensitive jerk. But if this was a woman forced to march in front of guys yelling out, "Show me your ****"... or worse, the entire world would be up in arms. Tell me where I'm wrong.

2007-08-13 12:52:31 · 19 answers · asked by kathy_is_a_nurse 7

2007-08-13 11:39:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Religion vs. Intellect seems to play a huge part in the dumbing down of the US. Does the US have anymore credibility left to lose?

2007-08-13 10:56:34 · 18 answers · asked by Active Denial System™ 6

2007-08-13 10:53:13 · 27 answers · asked by waggy 6