Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - May 2007

I'm really curious to find views on how gay people define virginity.
In the heterosexual world people are usually defined as virgins or non-virgins based on whether they've had penetrative sex or not and its a big deal for alot of people. And there is 1st Base, 2nd Base etc...with sexual intercourse being the pinnacle. And once you've lost your virginity its as though a person has passed a rite of passage.
How does this work in the gay community? For instance, if a gay man has had sex with a woman in the past but has not had sex with a man before is he a virgin? What sexual act constitutes losing virginity, particuarly in terms of lesbian sex when there isn't the climax of sexual intercourse?
Also, how are "virgins" regarded in the gay community (big generalisations so apologies!)? For instance, in heterosexuality some people regard virginity as a good thing and some people regard it as embarassing and a sign of being "un-trendy".
xxx

2007-05-19 04:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my cousin for as long as i can remember has alsways struck me at being gay, even when he was only two years old. the same thing with my aunt, i watched home videos with her in it and i always thought she didnt seem like the other girls in the video. but recently, they both came out of the closet. i believe people r born gay, but what r ur guy's opinions. (i have no problem what so ever with gay people so please dont report me, haha!)

2007-05-19 03:42:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

" money cant buy hapiness" agreed or not? why? 5 reasones plz

2007-05-19 03:21:57 · 16 answers · asked by malitrix 1

2007-05-19 02:32:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

marmite.

2007-05-19 02:26:29 · 7 answers · asked by Big Kev 1

This just seems wrong: when people blow people up because they're not the right kind of Christian or Muslim; when people are forced to beg for food on the streets; when we're destroying the very atmosphere of the earth around us... why condemn love?

2007-05-19 01:31:18 · 17 answers · asked by garik 5

ive tried to change myself -- to conform to christian views on this issue. it just didnt work. i could not get myself to like women. i was simply born this way.

2007-05-19 00:54:51 · 19 answers · asked by daniel k 2

can someome tell me what ladies talk about when they are together i have been trying to find a lady to help to no avail but i would like to know i am learning how to live as a female no smt a ansers please

2007-05-19 00:50:49 · 8 answers · asked by donna 2

2007-05-19 00:42:23 · 3 answers · asked by suri 1

2007-05-18 20:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was friends with someone who I really liked and then started to wonder if I was bisexual, and lately I think I might be because I like my friend....I don't know if this could be a phase or not. I'm 15 and confused. I like my friend but don't know if they like me back, or just as a friend?????

2007-05-18 19:23:15 · 7 answers · asked by victim 1

i grew up wid str8 guys aroud and they r accepting of my sexuality but then i got myspace made cool friends gay ones especally who happen to think im crazy coz im not intresed in going to gay clubs or going to gay parties this guy i met invited me to go on date with him i said no and he said he had a crush on me i said its myspace get real? and he started to spread **** about me over the net like im old dude ith some guys pics on myspace trying to get guys over myspace all of em believed it told my friends and they craked up o_o it was imberassing so i made a sign pic and now everyones like sorry dude i dint mean to u know how ppl r on myspace and this dude who asked me out all the sudden sendsm me a message and says go f**k urself and says ur not gay enougf and a str8 wanna be? wat the hell? so i dint want no **** from him but he kept sening me crap and tells me he still likes me?

2007-05-18 19:01:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are typical signs of lesbian flirting and what are lesbian body language signs of attraction?

2007-05-18 16:33:00 · 7 answers · asked by xmydyslexicheart 1

You know when you're at school, the store, the airport or wherever and you see a hot gay guy. You realize you're both gay and have some hardcore eye sex, then for some reason or another you're both too chicken to go up to each other, then the plane leaves and you never see them again. Isn't that frusterating! Don't you hate that?

2007-05-18 16:01:08 · 5 answers · asked by Zach 5

and i'm not sure how to approach him. And he is straight is it possible to get a straight guy to go out with bi guy.
every time I pass him in the hall it is like he stares at me and only me. I have thought about asking him but I am too afraid.

2007-05-18 14:46:12 · 11 answers · asked by J. class of 2009 1

How do they dress? and How do they act? Would I recognize one if it ran over me with a steamroller???

2007-05-18 13:27:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had relationship with ollder man very young now ive got over my complexes i want to please an older man or can you only do it as a kid i know it was wrong yet i never stop wanting more watching men it makes me ache inside yet i look at gay vidio there is no love its rubish but is it over for me

2007-05-18 13:11:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 and have a facebook (like practically everyone else at my high school), and have made it quite clear (on facebook) that I'm bi (though i prefer women). I have told my friends and I'll tell anyone who asks or I'll bring it up when it's relevant to the topic at hand. In that, I don't stand up in the middle of my classes and announce it for no reason. I don't believe that I should make my sexuality known to the whole world for no reason whatsoever.

That being said, I still get hit on by guys--even when I tell them I like girls--both inside and outside of school. Sure, it's nice and a great ego-boost for me (I'm slightly self-conscious, but working on it), but I would greatly prefer it if women would notice me, y'know?

I know this sounds extremely self-centered and all, but what I'm trying to get at is how can I appear more...women-friendly, I guess, without losing who I am. I'm not butch. I'm me. I suppose I identify more with femmes, but whatever. I sort of...blend in, y'know?

2007-05-18 13:04:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in the process of leaving my husband for a women. He knows about her and has moved out. Financially its hard but I am truly happy, my only problem now is when I see him Im feeling emotions and im not sure what to do with them. Im not physically attracted to him, I just cant help but think what could have been?? My girlfriend thinks that we (me & her) should take a break until I figure it all out. My family & friends are VERY supportive of my relationship with her, I worry about my girls not having their father around. He took care of them during the days while I worked, and I watched them and night while he worked. We obviously lost communication with each other and both cheated. I meet this great women and now Im torn? Anyone out there ever have a problem like this?
Thanks

2007-05-18 12:45:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in Mexico in a small town.. but I dont know to meet people I feel so lonely withou to meet people from my own preferences sorry if my english is bad I am doing my best thanks for answering well

2007-05-18 12:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a white male, but I think i might have African American blood in me. This is why I think so.

1. I love rap music.
2. I love basketball.
3. I think Beyonce and Rihanna are hot as a mofo.
4. I don't quite know how to say this, but if I was standing naked 10.5 inches away from someone and I got "excited" that person would be about 0.5 inches away from being poked in the hip.

2007-05-18 12:12:43 · 11 answers · asked by Mat P 2

theres a guy i like and he would be perfect for me except i am not physically attracted to him, how can i learn to look past this?

2007-05-18 10:35:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you guys think that being gay, lesbian or bi is becoming a trend? So many people thses days are claiming to not be straight and when they are comfronted about it there straight. I feel that it's becoming a trend, I can't tell you how many times I've met people who are who day are straight, and the next day lesbian, and the next day bi, and so on.....



btw if anybody wants to add me on myspace add mee...I need people to talk to who I can relate to...=(

www.myspace.com/mposada09

2007-05-18 10:33:01 · 17 answers · asked by Maria P 2

2007-05-18 10:30:59 · 14 answers · asked by Patty T 1

2007-05-18 10:28:48 · 4 answers · asked by wawajuicybabygirl 1

Could you love or start relationship with someone who isn't cute?

2007-05-18 10:28:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i'm married to a man and i have two kids......but i'm attracted to women just as well as men i think they are sexy and i check them out all the time. I want to be with a woman or both at the same time but i'm not sure what to say to my husband or if i should tell him at all or if im even bi-curious

2007-05-18 09:42:12 · 5 answers · asked by Cindy C 1

I have an awkward question to ask...Which ear is considered the gay ear? I think it doesn't matter which ear you get your ear pierced, but this boy in my school just got his ear pierced on the left side, and everybody says that's the gay ear, although he says its not. I just have to know for sure.

2007-05-18 08:59:02 · 18 answers · asked by Britt 4

o.........what come I do
that mean I can't find a man in futrue
i am so worry about it

2007-05-18 08:51:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend's mother in-law is coming next month, she wants her mother-in-law to like her, what can you say about Israelians women and her culture?

My girlfriend is hispanic and christian her mother-in-law is Israelian and christian

2007-05-18 08:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by Lebelle 3