Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - March 2007

i'm not gay at all but i'm liking the reactions of the women who think i have bisexual tendances.almost to much.is it possable to convert to some profound energy vibe that opens my mind in such a way where i accually start living this truth..i'm a mans man but feel out of control and i like it

2007-03-16 08:56:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Freedom of speech or way out of line? Why?

2007-03-16 08:53:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, here's the deal: 5 months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years, after finding out she'd been lying to me for... two years. Turns out she was literly psychotic. We still have some of the same friends and they won't shut up about how she wants to get back with me and misses me. I've told them I'd never go back. Now I'm back out dating and I'm wondering if I get a new GF, should I let people know? If I do, my old one will find out, and I know she'll try and get between us (She's done it before). So, Should I tell people, or keep it on the downlow?

2007-03-16 08:48:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

When we were told to be monogamous, We were only living in to our 30's. Now we live for so much longer is it unreasonable to ask a person to commit to you for life.

Before I get attacked this is a question NOT an opinion!

2007-03-16 08:46:15 · 15 answers · asked by Psycho Chicken! 5

Okay, I have this friend who I think is gay, but every time I ask he denies it. Here's what made me think he was gay:
*He watches chick flicks
*He plays the flute
*He prefers to go in a jewelry store to Sports Authority
*He sings 'Fergalicious'
*He changes it to 'Davidlicious'
*He failed kindergarden
*He has his guy friends call him "Superman"
*He doesn't know what WTF stands for
*He doesn't know what viagra is...trust me, he's old enough
~~He does have a girfriend though, and they've been going out for a few months. But the thing is, they never really do anything together, they just say they're together. Is he gay?

2007-03-16 08:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by Panic!4Life 2

I was just wondering, when you found out that you were gay did it just hit you like a ton of bricks like tada I'm gay. Or was it more of a gradual thing? Also, do you feel like soceity as a whole is more comfortable with homosexuals or is it still like it was in the 80's where you had to hide it.? Just curious.

2007-03-16 08:37:49 · 9 answers · asked by Jamie B 3

probably about 75-80% of the glbt people I talk to have no concept of gay history. They don't know about Stonewall, how the first pride parade came to be, the people who fought for the limited freedoms glbt people have today. Many don't even know the history or the symbolism of that rainbow flag they are so proudly waving. How can you have pride about something you know nothing about? To know where you're going, don't you have to know where you came from?

Don't get me wrong. I'm not a basher or a hater. I'm in fact, a female to male transsexual. But, this is frustrating, and it seems almost a bit hypocritical. If you want the straight community to accept you and understand you, shouldn't you understand your OWN community first?

2007-03-16 08:25:51 · 9 answers · asked by I_color_outside_the_lines 4

2007-03-16 08:15:36 · 15 answers · asked by Queen T 3

2007-03-16 07:56:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering why gay men seem to have to act just like girls. I mean they dress like them, talk like them, and even walk like them. I'm totally gay, and I really like guys. Why would I want to be with a girl, or a guy that acts like a girl? I was wondering straight guys, gay guys, lesbians, straight girls, anyone, do have an answer to this. Or have you ever wondered yourself.

2007-03-16 07:38:52 · 21 answers · asked by Adam 2

I know how they do the surgery for the man-to-woman operation; I just can't even fathom how they would do a woman-to-man operation.

2007-03-16 07:27:03 · 16 answers · asked by ayleyha 3

BUT NEVER THE LESBIAN NUNS ABUSING GIRLS,,

2007-03-16 07:21:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes i feel like there's more straight people here than lgbt's. maybe they're just curious but it's strange how much time they spend answering questions concerning lgbt issues and usually the answers are negative and ignorant. i mean don't you have better stuff to do then to come here and trash us?

2007-03-16 07:15:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do not understand!
The other day I was walking on campus and a guy had his pants almost under his a##...whats the deal with it? Is that an homosexual indicator? hehe
Please answerrrr

2007-03-16 07:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u have a book of pictures of naked men just sitten in youre room?

2007-03-16 07:12:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

this site explains what the bible says if anything about homosexuality and how the verses so called that they use against us condem us without reading the texts leading up to it
could you guys tell me if you find it useful http://www.soulforce.org/article/homosexuality-bible-gay-christian

2007-03-16 07:07:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 07:05:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wrote this a week or two ago here...

"I'm in my 40's, married a long time, happily mostly, and now divorced. I dated a few women, and slept with them, following the divorce. Then I met a guy, and, he asked to sleep with me, and, I did. He is quite nice, sophisticated, masculine, and, I did not realize he was gay until he asked to sleep with me. I loved the sex with him, really loved it. I never have really looked at other guys or have ever felt myself gay. But now, naturally, I am wondering. What is going on here?"

OK, now, I am like falling head over heals for this guy. Like, I get tingly inside, can't wait to see him, and, well, sleep with him almost every night. I never thought this was possible, and, am a little distubed by it all. I am left leaning, have worked with gay folks all my life, just, never thought this was possible. I am really both disturbed and really, really, happy about this.

Is this natual, to feel a bit freakish?

2007-03-16 07:01:27 · 9 answers · asked by goldandsilver 2

i only took one home, because he was so drunk i was affarid he'd try to drive home and get killed (nothign happend he left in a rush the next morning)

2007-03-16 06:56:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If luck is a lady tonight... then does that mean it could be a man tomorrow?

2007-03-16 06:50:16 · 7 answers · asked by Yuka 4

im attracted to men but its hard for me to express physical affection such as kissing,slow dancing etc...i'm really afraid to express physical affection.

2007-03-16 06:44:19 · 33 answers · asked by natalie 1

2007-03-16 06:38:49 · 17 answers · asked by Angel u 1

OK, there has always been a debate on whether or not homosexuality is a chosen trait, or if people are born with it. Many homosexuals will argue, however, that the jury is in on that topic and it is 100% final: Homosexuality is a genetic trait. I am only here to make you think about that some more, not to get your panties in a bunch, so to speak.

One common example I have heard is a homosexual saying “I never chose to be homosexual, I just feel that way.” Well, what if it was a subconscious decision made when you first reached puberty, or even before that? Of course, no one said “Well, I think I’ll be gay”. But maybe your brain decided it for you.

Let me explain. I prefer brunette women. In fact, I do not even find blonde women attractive, although many men do. I never decided one day to prefer brunette women, I just do. One day, my brain made a subconscious decision that brunettes are really hot, and blondes are not.

However, I do not think that preference is coded into my DNA. I was not BORN liking brunettes, I just became that way. Could homosexuality be the same way? Could it be a subconscious decision made by your brain, not a genetically encoded “fact”?

Why or why not? And PLEASE do not tell me “I don’t remember choosing to be a homosexual”, because that obviously shows your ignorance to the word “subconscious”. Also, many people say “Well, I just KNOW it’s genetic”. Well, I just KNOW there is a God, so it’s a fact, right? Wrong. Feelings are not PROOF.

BTW, there has been NO scientific proof either way. The closest you will get is “studies have shown that…” There has been suggestive evidence, but nothing definitive.

Sooooo, what do you people think?

2007-03-16 06:35:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married, but am having an emotional affair with a man. The affair had been physical, but over the past few months, it's been of a more emotional nature. We are still very good friends. This guy however still wants me to come and see him just to hang out and cuddle, talk, etc. What do I make of this? Is he still wanting the physical aspect? (he claims he doesn't want it, but I think otherwise).

2007-03-16 06:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2

I don't get why people feel the need to cheat on their girlfriend/boyfriend. I would never cheat on my boyfriend even from day 1. I'm looking for serious long term relationship, not some short term relationship. All people that cheat on their girlfriend or boyfriend needs to stop cheating. I guess they are not looking for long term relationships if they cheat. How would you feel is your partner is cheating on you? exactly, you wouldn't want to cheat. You chose to be with your partner and stick with that decision. If you want out, just break up with your current partner and get a new partner. So my question is why exactly do people cheat on their partner?

2007-03-16 06:22:33 · 7 answers · asked by Amy T. 1

I'm a female to male transsexual. Looks wise, I pass VERY well as a guy. The problem though, is that everyone assumes I'm a GAY man. Well, I'm 27 and I've liked GIRLS for as long as I can remember. I mean I guess I can KIND OF see it. I'm only 5'1", a little chubby, and my voice is not that deep (still deeper than a girl's, but in a tenor range). I dress "casual prep", and I take pride in how I look. I'm also very cultured, as I like symphonies, musicals, theatre, plays, philosophy, art, ect. Apparently this comes off as "gay man" to everyone. It's frustrating because now girls all think I'm gay and just want to be my "good friend", when *I* would like to be more. How do I change my "image"?

2007-03-16 06:22:17 · 22 answers · asked by I_color_outside_the_lines 4

Mine are abusive in more ways than one. I can't talk to them, can't tell them any secrets or anything because they'll use it against me. They always stab me in the back and betray me etc. They make me sick to my stomach.

2007-03-16 06:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by teetalla 1

Stop answering the troll's questions, it will make them waste 5 points and eventually they will get bored and leave because they are not getting any attention from us. Agreed?

2007-03-16 06:13:33 · 15 answers · asked by The One and Only 3

is it just me or are the only people that pay people out (offend) the ones who at school travel in large groups of mates so that if somebody does jump them they have backup or the same on the internet do they only say it because noone can get to them i have noticed that they never stir trouble when they are on their own does anybody alse seem to notice this?

2007-03-16 06:02:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 05:54:47 · 55 answers · asked by woolly bully 2