Should I let people know about my new gf?

Question

Okay, here's the deal: 5 months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years, after finding out she'd been lying to me for... two years. Turns out she was literly psychotic. We still have some of the same friends and they won't shut up about how she wants to get back with me and misses me. I've told them I'd never go back. Now I'm back out dating and I'm wondering if I get a new GF, should I let people know? If I do, my old one will find out, and I know she'll try and get between us (She's done it before). So, Should I tell people, or keep it on the downlow?

Answer 1

I'd just get a restraining order against the psycho and be a little selective about who you tell about your new girlfriends. If you get kinda close, warn them that there's someone from your past that sometimes tries to cause problems, just in case she does make an appearance.

Answer 2

Best to not tell anyone for now. Let some time pass, so your ex can find someone new of her own to torment and forget about you. If your friends still bother you, best to further yourself for a little bit from them as well. People heel from relationships slower than others - best to lay low for a while.

Answer 3

dont listen to that retard above me hes like a homo hater! ok anyway im bi, and i have a gf also, and im glad your out lookin for new girls, but if you do find a new gf, then i wouldnt let your ex know cause ifs shes pyschotic then um she might try to do more then get in between yall.and if you get a new girlfriend then be like hey my psycho ex is like nuts so be careful lol =P
the same thing happend to me. my ex is like in love with me and so he tried everythin he could and hes like a stalker , but it worked out he moved on now im happy with my gf =]

i wish you good luck!
=D