First off, I'm not trying to stereotype my own people, but I've noticed that a lot of black gays and lesbians feel the need for one of them to be 'the man' and the other to be 'the woman' in a relationship. Like I said, it's not all black gays but quite a few of them. I am a black lesbian, but am not like this.The two gay couples I know are like this. My cousin who is gay, is feminine and usually dates masculine men. But now he is dating another fem man and says that his boyfriend is the wife and he is the husband. Why can't they both be the husband? The same with my gay friends, They are lesbians, both fem, but think that one of them has to be referred to as a stud in order for them to be considered gay. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with fem-stud relationships,to each it's own, I'm just saying do they understand that they don't have to take on these roles. if they were to do this naturally, it'd be okay. But they do this because they think it's the only way to do it.
2006-09-20
16:20:17
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