Also, I have more questions below, but please don't take offense to this, I'm just an outsider to this community trying to learn. I'm sincerely not trying to be offensive in any way.
1) For the guys, have you had successful sexual/loving relationships with women?
2) For the girls, have you had successful sexual/loving relationships with men?
3) Are any of you gay/les/bi, or sexually confused? Do you feel your parents effected this or not?
4) Do you feel you were raised well enough to understand the world and how to survive in it?
5) Were your parents fair with gender while raising you? I ask this one because I wonder if some lesbian couples get their daughters to treat men unequally, or are they fair, & do the gay male parents teach enough about women so that their kids aren't biased?
6) Did your parents try to talk you into fitting the opposite genders dress style, actions, etc, as a way to show you it;s okay to be either or?
Just questions from a nosey person.
2006-09-20 20:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
G - But does he really understand how to treat women? Or does he let them and people in general walk all over them?
I think it's discriminatve to say we should all have lesbian mothers just as it is to say gays shouldn't raise children. But I understand it's easy to discriminate, it's difficult to be fair and true.
2006-09-20 20:30:43 · update #1
G - I meant to say, doea he let them walk all over him?
2006-09-20 20:31:23 · update #2
lseetz - Thanks for answering this logically, unlike the two idiots before you.
2006-09-21 05:03:09 · update #3
☺Everybod... still loves Chris!♥▼© - It's people like you who give bad names to entire minority groups with your arrogance and low brow attitude. Just because I don't know everything about gay people doesn't mean you should be an *** when someone sincerely wants to know. If you EVER get pissed at people who fear the unknown (like fearing gay people) and don't want to learn, you then are a foolish hypocrite! Because here I am trying to learn and you're STILL behaving poorly. I won't come to your rescue when some homophobe bashes you in one of YOUR posts!
2006-09-22 14:57:09 · update #4
i had a friend with a lesbian mom and he turned out very straight and a really nice guy. His mom taught him to be a decent person -- which is much better than being a jerk. I think more people need lesbian moms.
I guess he is kind of walked on but it doesn't seem to bother him much -- no use fighting for the sake of fighting. when i said more poeple need lesbian moms i guess i should have not been so general -- just most people have pyscho parents that are completely self obsessed with their jobs and money and themselves and give no time to their kids and his mom was always there for him. good parenting skills aren't dictated by who you are attracted to. For the most part i think it takes a village to raise a child and most kids don't even have one decent parent --
2006-09-20 20:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Hey.. i'm a lesbian, kudo's to you for asking such a question. It seems like you really are sincerely wondering how things go on with LGBT relationships and families.
Well, to tell you the truth it isnt much different from the heterosexual ones. For instance if you reversed your question and directed it at heterosexuals... the answers you get there would sum up to wut would happen in our relationships and families as well.
FYI, I was raised by staright parents, My older brother is straight as can be, My second brother is a transvetite, I am a lesbian, and my younger sister is in a very happy heterosexual marriage. So, i really dont think your parents sexuality derive's your's. Parents however have an influence on the kind of person you are... not totally but to a certain effect.... mind you, we become whoever we want to in time no matter how much our parents mould us or not.
Thanks for trying to get to know us. If i have hurt you in any way, i'm sorry i didnt intend to.
hugs.
2006-09-21 05:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by lseetz 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I don't actually think you can find a person raised by a gay couple that is in his/her teenage or older, most of them are still just kids...so maybe you'll not have accurate answers to that question.
Personally i think a person raised that way will have a lot of conflicts and will be kind of confused about relationships with the opposite sex and other stuff...but that's only my opinion.
2006-09-21 03:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by fireangel 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
kinda loading a gun here aint ya?
you really have no clue about gay people have you?
i was raised by straight parents, shouldnt that of made me straight?
2006-09-21 04:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 2⤊ 6⤋
yawns....
2006-09-21 04:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by Vancouver-snuggy 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋