Cultures & Groups - 19 July 2007

2007-07-19 22:03:29 · 14 answers · asked by sambha s 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I don't want kids, I'm better putting a saddle on a horse than I am changing diapers. Mothering just isn't for me. Why do people seem to think that every woman should want kids, and if she doesn't something must be wrong with her?

Aren't there plenty of kids that need adopting too, first?

2007-07-19 21:47:31 · 9 answers · asked by mathaowny 6 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2007-07-19 21:44:24 · 5 answers · asked by Spiderboy 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

there is no great or healthy ciggarette,

but what is really menthol all about

i use to lovem..newport, kools, marlboros..

but havent touched them in awhile..

but what is the true info on them?

2007-07-19 21:10:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2007-07-19 20:02:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I have been single all of my life. I am 35 and feel I have wasted ‘The good years’ because I chose to live my life inside the house and become socially inept. I grew up in a severely dysfunctional family and discovered I liked boys when I was about 12 years old. I was molested by a guy when I was 5 years old and it went on for about 5 years. He was about 15 or 16 years old. He threatened to kill me and my family if I ever told anyone, so I remained silent until I was 28 and finally told my family. The nightmares and panic attacks were bad for 4 or 5 years until I was about 15. I lived my entire life in the closet until just 5 months ago. I came out to a guy I thought was gay and he just used me and discarded me like a piece of garbage. He just pretended to be my friend because he knew I loved him. He dumped our friendship just 2 weeks ago because he got a girlfriend.

So, I chose to live off of my divorced parents from age 18 until 35 moving back and forth between them over the years. Everything was just handed to me. In that time I just partied the pain away with pot and booze and told myself ‘I will worry about my life later’ thinking I would never know true love and will always be single. I held a few jobs for a year or so over this 17 year period, but never learned responsibility or about the real world. Now at 35 I am 350 pounds, live with my mom, am still a virgin because nobody wants to be with me and feel hopeless. I have been off the drugs and alcohol for over 5 years, but just replaced those addictions with food. I am gay and have no skills, no education, and have realized life has passed me by. I have no self esteem, dignity, or discipline and feel like a walking zombie. I am stupid and lazy. I want to know love and experience life now so very much. With no employment history, skills or almost anything else, where do I begin? The load is almost to heavy to bare. I want to change direction now but feel I have waited to long. Will I ever find true love and let go of this past baggage which has made me not want to get out of bed every morning for the past 17 years? PLEASE GIVE SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY-PLEASE NO HATERS. Thanks

2007-07-19 19:52:39 · 15 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

my dad is transgendered, and i completely disagree with this. ive been lying to him for years, but i can lie anymore. how can i talk to him?

2007-07-19 19:50:16 · 20 answers · asked by tmhangel 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

How did Hip Hop and Rap music become the fall guy for the problem with America's youth and values?
I am sick and tired of hearing that rap/hip hop demeans women, that it teaches the wrong message. When will reassign the blame where it should be? With the parents

2007-07-19 18:59:57 · 15 answers · asked by Been Real All My Life 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I dont even need a reason but the best one will get my vote.

Cant believe these fools want to protest the NFL. I'm sure one of them fat asses sat on some leather in the last week or so.

2007-07-19 18:31:50 · 6 answers · asked by Bobby D 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Are you kidding me? GIve me any good reason why you idiots would do this? Could you do me a favor and go choke on a carrot? Why are you guys always crying about crap? Why dont you invest your time into something productive? We have bigger problems than fat girls in fur and $39.95 steak at crappy restruants.

2007-07-19 18:28:52 · 10 answers · asked by Bobby D 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

just started talking again and we made plans
she was gonna spend the night with me tomorrow night and i was gonna go to florida for a week with her on vacation

but i tried to call her and her bro said she wasnt around
and then today she deleted me off her myspace friends??

whats up with that

oh yea and i sent her a mssg and she ever replyed

2007-07-19 18:00:24 · 8 answers · asked by rawr 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

About this song, I think is so beautiful that even if you don't speak Spanish you will feel the meaning of it!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=79mHSWp-v-c

2007-07-19 17:51:58 · 4 answers · asked by ★Chika09★ 6 in Other - Cultures & Groups

OK i hate using labels like "emo" cuz i dont wanna sound like a poseur but without knowing what i look like, theres no other way to say it. i typically wear skinny jeans, converse low tops, band t's or black tank tops and lots of happy colored bracelets/ and about 3 necklaces. my hair is diagnol sideswept bangs, i like to wear thick headbands too. i wear dark eyeliner and dark eyeshadow under my eyes. in other words, im totally emo.

what my problem is though, is that my mom hates how i look, hates my friends (who are also emo),my poetry, music&would kill me if she knew that i cut myself. shes trying2 convert my style,making me wear skirts instead of jeans, which are shin length and black, and making me not wear converse. my question is: i still want to express myself by looking emo on the outside, so do skirts (even though they are longer) look emo if i still wear it with bracelets, the bangs, etc.? also, shes making me wear flip flops instead.

2007-07-19 17:34:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

White Dads feel really happy when they find out that their wives are pregnant, some cry, they cant wait to do the best they can to raise that child. Black Dads on the other hand, often celebrate when they find out that they are not the father of the child, why? Look at this guy, he was so happy that he was not the father, that he started dancing!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZD78-CCPhAQ

2007-07-19 17:29:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I have a feeling that no one likes me or loves me for who I am

2007-07-19 17:29:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I always see them with women!

2007-07-19 17:27:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-07-19 17:21:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-07-19 17:20:43 · 13 answers · asked by TRACER ™ 6 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Now, I have nothing against gay people at all; I like to think of myself as very progressive and open minded. Actually, I tell everyone I know that I am and they all agree. With that being said, a new employee started off this week on Monday making the rounds about the office introducing himself. Of course, everyone acts so immature "I think he's gay", blah..

Anyway, this morning in the break room I think I caught him glancing at my crotch. I awkwardly said "heya, good morning" and left swiftly. Also, in our office the windows are like mirrors and I could clearly see him checking out my butt in the reflections every time I walked by.

Should I sue him or get him fired? I feel like I should get some kind of shield on my butt in case if we're alone in the bathroom. I almost feel like holding a book against by rear every time I walk by his cubicle for the chance of getting raped. Maybe I should pass out flyers warning the other guys in the office; I'd hate to see someone raped!

2007-07-19 17:19:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I asked a question about starting a GSA at my school a few days ago. I got a lot of good responces, but now I have another question. I think it is never too early to start doing research and working on stuff, but what would I need to have at the beginning?

I just made a "report" I guess about important dates to the LGBT community to give out to the people who join. I also made a flyer to advertise and some club bylaws. I do think the bylaws should be discussed before they become permanent, but I think I have a good foundation for people to work with. (I stole it off the internet, lol) I also want to go to a graphic designer and purchase a large thing, don't know what to call it, to affix to my table to advertise the GSA during lunch so people can join.

Another question, do you think I am doing too much work for something that might not even exist?

2007-07-19 17:18:02 · 3 answers · asked by dudeboy 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I have always thought about girls and guys..but i havent told anyone close to me.Is there anywhere you can find bi-sexual girls my age or any bi-sexual girls my age to talk to?

2007-07-19 17:13:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

a few months ago this one guy on myspace started talking to me out of nowhere he lives about 4 hours away. we chatted and then that was it. well about 2 months ago he suddenlt started talking to me alot. leaving me comments and telling me how cute i was .........all that stuff. then one day he gave me his number so i gave him mine. we chatted some more and now he is all telling me how he feels so much for me. maybe its cause im 26 and he is 21 but im just like well we have never really met in person and he will always call and ask did you miss me ? or hey seriously do you like me? and im always like im not to sure . is this weird or is it just me? is it just his age that he is so quick to feel he likes someone or is it just me being older and more experienced that im not giving him a chance. cause there was a day where i would have been flattered but now im just like hmm how can you like me so much when you have never even met me?

2007-07-19 17:05:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Please explain in some coherent way. No appeals to emotion or bandwagon arguments please - rational only. I am not certain that our conception of race fits the reality of race. I am looking for some guidance on how to approach this issue.

2007-07-19 17:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2007-07-19 17:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Is there like a vibe bi and gay women give off to let u no they like u besides telling u I no flirting but is that ?

2007-07-19 16:56:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

not that this has anything to do with sexuality, this is just for interest sake.

2007-07-19 16:53:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I believe that all people are created equal. But how can a person look down at another people like he or she are not even human at all?

2007-07-19 16:44:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

i mean i like my wife playng with my butt but it really has me wondering i dont like that thought of a guy doing me it kinda makes me feel wrong but when she plays its ok and i like it but am i straight or bi i need a little advice guys

2007-07-19 16:33:56 · 17 answers · asked by russell010887 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

George Bush goes to a primary school to talk to the kids to get a little PR. After his talk he offers question time. One little boy puts up his hand and George asks him his name.

"Stanley," responds the little boy.

"And what is your question, Stanley?"

"I have 4 questions:

First, why did the USA invade Iraq without the support of the UN?
Second, why are you President when Al Gore got more votes?
Third, whatever happened to Osama Bin Laden?"
Fourth, why are we so worried about gay-marriage when 1/2 of all Americans don't have health insurance?

Just then, the bell rings for recess. George Bush informs the kiddies that they will continue after recess.

When they resume George says, "OK, where were we? Oh, that's right, question time. Who has a question?"

Another little boy puts up his hand. George points him out and asks him his name.

"Steve," he responds.

"And what is your question, Steve?"

"Actually, I have 6 questions.
First, why did the USA invade Iraq without the support of the UN?
Second, why are you President when Al Gore got more votes?
Third, whatever happened to Osama Bin Laden?
Fourth, why are we so worried about gay marriage when 1/2 of all
Americans don't have health insurance?
Fifth, why did the recess bell go off 20 minutes early?
And sixth, what the hell happened to Stanley?"



















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2007-07-19 15:53:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I would like to know your opions on this

2007-07-19 15:23:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups